Cuckolding
If there are any woman listening in, i would love to hear your thoughts on Cuckolding. The sub males can chime in as well.
Cuckolding for some reason or other is a major turn on for me and i don't understand why. i mean, in theory i don't get to pleasure my wife and she is consciously seeking out another man for her orgasm.
Yet the whole idea is very much a turn on for me. the idea of my wife moaning and groaning with another man in her makes me extremely excited. my fantasies mainly revolve around me serving them both in some capacity and my wife letting me know that he pleases her in ways i never could.
Obviously there are tons of sites dedicated to this idea, but still i feel that wanting this is somehow wrong and an affront to the idea of marriage. One of the few times i had the courage to share my sexual fantasies with my Wife, i did bring up the idea of watching her with another man. i think She did briefly consider it, but then told me She didn't think She could ever go through with the idea...sigh...
i would love to hear anyone's thoughts. Have you considered this fantasy? Do you think it fits a LFA lifestyle?
posted by lansdale LFA at 8:27 PM
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My Wife and i have done some mild explorations in this area and we both find it very enjoyable. For me i recognize i have a lot of sexual shortcomings and i love my Wife and want to see her have the most pleasure in life she possilby can. For me i felt like encouraging her to be with others was an act of love.
I do partially cuckold My husband... and he actually loves it. I have two lovers that I see periodically and My husband encourages this. He loves to know that I am having pleasure with another man. he finds it humiliating, but he loves this kind of humiliation.
To date, I have not allowed him to watch Me with one of My lovers and I really do not know if I will. My husband is really interested in this, but in the end, the choice is Mine.
Another thing I do is tell My husband of My exploits. This humiliates him and arouses him something fierce when I do this. Usually W/we end up having incredible sex right after I finish telling him about everything.
I do not advise E/everyone to be in a cuckold style marriage. My husband and I spoke about cuckolding many times both before marrying and after W/we married. W/we came to the conclusion that this is right for U/us... at least for the time being. It may not always be this way and W/we both know and accept this.
I think one of the reasons that My husband has no problems with being partially cuckolded is because he is secure in the love that I have for him. he knows that I will never leave him for another man. Though I share My body with My lovers, I never share My heart. That belongs exclusively to the love of My life... My husband.
My best,
Goddess Aradia
My personal opinion is that there is too much attention given to this subject, especially from the submissive male side of the fence. This is probably because many men find the idea of watching their wife have sex to be erotic.
I don't think I could handle her having sex with another man. However, flirting while away on a business trip would arouse me. Maybe a little close dancing.
Somehow, her sleeping with another woman is fine.
The fantasy excites me, but I don't think I could handle the reality.
Mistress does, from time to time, tease me that she could take another lover, and that I would have to accept that. I always get turned on by that thought.
My wife cuckolded me at my request 2 years ago.....I love it.. Now i am only allowed to have sex with her if i wear a condom.. Her regular lover, goes bareback...She teases me constantly and the humiliation is awesome....
I feel so alive.........
I used to be a submissive woman that I think many men would have loved to marry. This all changed when I met a roommate in college. I learned that, although men want a submissive woman, they will listen to a forceful one.
My roommate was very liberated. At first, I was repulsed by her and thought that she was a very selfish woman that had no respect for men.
We shared a bunk bed. I slept on the top bunk and she slept on the bottom. Many of nights I would be sleeping when she brought home one of her dates. These men would take her out to dinner and a movie and then come to our dorm to give her oral sex. And then she would have them leave!
As time went on, her lifestyle intrigued me. I kept wondering to myself how can she get men to take her out, pay for her, and then come back and please her down there, and then leave without anything in return! What do these men get out of it?
I began looking forward to her bringing home these dates, as most of these men would strip down before servicing her. I always pretended I was asleep and I don't even think the men knew I was there. I would peek through the boards of the bunk bed so I can see them.
I started finding myself fantasizing about what I wanted to do to some of these men. It was a big revelation for me to learn that men will do anything to please me. This new sense of power filled me everywhere I went.
I am married now to a wonderful husband. He lets me explore myself outside of our marriage. Something I noticed is that the more I seek other men, the more faithful and subservient he is to me. I couldn't be happier.
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